Friday, August 14, 2009

If You Want To Win Ex Girlfriend Back Then Stop Acting Foolish!

By DeAnn Norton

If you have been dumped and are wondering how to win ex girlfriend back, you are probably getting pretty frustrated. I mean how do you get back the girl you love without looking like a pathetic fool?

If you are certain that you want to win ex girlfriend back, then read this article and take the steps outlined to have the greatest chance of success.

Here is the real truth (from a woman's perspective, no less): If you do not have a plan, you will fail when you attempt to win ex girlfriend back. Do not go running around like a chicken with your head cut off, planning dates and sending flowers. She will see right through that, and it is going to hurt your chances.

First of all, just leave her alone for awhile. She broke up with you, so she is stating right there that she wants to be left alone... at least for right now. Do not disregard her feelings about this or you will prove her point that she needs to be away from you.

Take some time alone for yourself thinking about what part you played in the breakup of your relationship. Do not have a pity party or beat yourself up about it, but really give it some thought as to what you can change.

Was anger an issue in your relationship? If it was, you need to get some professional counseling to overcome that. No matter who you end up with, anger should never be a part of the union.

Maybe you were having some self esteem issues that caused you to mistrust your ex girlfriend. No one likes to feel that they are being watched or questioned all the time.

Did you cheat on her and she found out? Well, that is a relationship killer. You are going to have to take some strong actions to prevent yourself from ever doing that again.

No matter why your girlfriend sent you packing, to win ex girlfriend back you are going to have to take some serious actions. Making little gestures here and there are not going to do the trick.

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Anonymous said...

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