My Ex Boyfriend Hasn't Called Me Yet

At first glance this probably makes little sense. After all, how can you make him love you again if you're not even talking to him, right? It works on the old principle of absence working to make a person love you more. If you stay out of his life, he'll soon come to see the value you brought to it.

Keep in mind one important thing if he hasn't called since the break up. It takes men generally at least two to three weeks before they are hit with the emotional pain of losing you. This is true regardless of whether the break up was his idea or your idea. He's not going to start missing you until some time has passed.

If he hasn't called you yet after a few weeks you do need to reach out to him. You have to be careful of how you do this though as you don't want to appear too needy or desperate. The call must seem to be out of necessity so you're going to have to come up with a believable excuse to call.

A good approach is to tell him you have something that belongs to him still. If you look hard enough, you likely do. The call therefore becomes about when you can return it to him which will give you an excuse to see him.

Also, take into consideration whether anything eventful is going on in his life around this time. Maybe it's his birthday, or the birthday of his mother or sibling. If that's the case, you can call to wish him a good birthday or ask him to send your well wishes to whoever is celebrating. Your goal should only be to break the ice with this call. It's a strong and important first step.


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