Most of the time, guys find dating as a challenge. Adding to it are the complexities of being a woman. Guys are sometimes unsure on how to please a girl, or do not know what she wants. This article aims to help guys rule out their anxieties when it comes to dating.
No one can completely reveal the mysteries of a woman. This may be good because on a lighter note, her being mysterious make her all the more interesting.
And so, these tips will guide and teach you on how to be more confident in dealing with women. As the end result, you will see dating as a brand new and wonderful experience for you wherein the usual anxiousness will be hard to noticed.
You do things well and you will see yourself as part of a successful relationship with someone in the near future.
Regardless of you situation, whether a guy who has been single for years, never been on a date yet, or just come out from a broken relationship, you will be benefited with these common guidelines that work well in the dating arena.
Rule number one: look your very best. Sport just the right clothes and shoes. You may not be aware of it, but women pay attention not only to your clothes but to your shoes as well. So be sure you have the right pair that complements your attire. Also, ascertain you are wearing pieces that bring out your best features.
Stay Clean and Look Fresh
Apart from your wardrobe, personal hygiene is essential too, no doubt. Get yourself a nice hair cut. You may even take the extra mile and go to a salon for some professional help if you want. You may experiment a bit to see which look or hairstyle is best for you.
Professionals are readily available to assist you. Again, hygiene is overly important. Make it part of your daily routine to take a shower daily. Stay fresh each and every day.
A Real Life Hero
Read books about manners, chivalry and courtesy. You should know that a woman's melting point is when treated with utmost respect. Be a gentleman and make her feel extra special. Forget all trace of rudeness. Act properly around her. Be knowledgeable about women's stuff such as fashion, jewelries, and bags.
Do not try to be an expert on these subjects though; little knowledge is enough to have something in common to talk about, in case you both are totally different from each other.
Besides fashion, also be informed about current issues. Try to know a little of everything and you will sure make an impression.
What Time Is It?
In whatever angle you view it, tardiness does not ring any positive note especially on a date. Thus, you have to come on time each time you have a date. Do not let her wait or else she will get the wrong impression about you.
On the other hand, being too early has its own pitfall too. If you do so specifically if you are picking her at her place, she may not be finished preparing yet or you may find her half-dressed for your date. Surely, you do not want to put pressure on her to rush on her clothes and make-up, do you?
Moreover, pay attention to your date. Sincerely compliment her for anything. By now, perhaps you already noticed how women like it when complimented about their looks or even about their clothes or shoes. Little compliments matter so much as long that they are said with utmost sincerity.
You may forget that your date is about the two of you and not about you alone. Hence, let her take part on it and let her speak up. Sometimes, a guy is too absorbed on impressing a girl that he ends up babbling about himself, leaving no time for the girl to talk. This is totally absurd. How are you going to know her if you do not listen to what she has to say?
Do not overly talk about yourself only. Hear her story as well. Be a good communicator as well as a good listener. This is highly essential.
Money Matters
It is an unspoken rule that guys should pay the date. But in today's time, more and more women have become independent and want to take liability on their share of the date. If you date such woman, you may argue with her about it. If she agrees to let you pay, then do so. But if not, at least shoulder half of the whole bill.
Apart from who-pays-the-bill, kissing is another matter to reckon with. First date kiss may or may not be for you. So watch out. But be on the safe side and avoid the goodnight kiss after your first date. Many women are not comfortable with this. Unless of course, the signs are apparent.
To find out if she wants to be kissed or not, read her gestures. Or, wait if she will initiate.
If you do like the girl and wants to see her again, get her number. However, do not lead her on to believe that you will call her if you have no intentions of seeing or hearing from her again. If you are not truly interested for another date, thank her for a wonderful time, bid her farewell and walk on. On the contrary, if you want to date her again, let her know.
Dating is a whole new experience that can open up wonderful opportunities. With these dating tips and by doing things right, you have greater chances of a happy and memorable dating escapade.
No one can completely reveal the mysteries of a woman. This may be good because on a lighter note, her being mysterious make her all the more interesting.
And so, these tips will guide and teach you on how to be more confident in dealing with women. As the end result, you will see dating as a brand new and wonderful experience for you wherein the usual anxiousness will be hard to noticed.
You do things well and you will see yourself as part of a successful relationship with someone in the near future.
Regardless of you situation, whether a guy who has been single for years, never been on a date yet, or just come out from a broken relationship, you will be benefited with these common guidelines that work well in the dating arena.
Rule number one: look your very best. Sport just the right clothes and shoes. You may not be aware of it, but women pay attention not only to your clothes but to your shoes as well. So be sure you have the right pair that complements your attire. Also, ascertain you are wearing pieces that bring out your best features.
Stay Clean and Look Fresh
Apart from your wardrobe, personal hygiene is essential too, no doubt. Get yourself a nice hair cut. You may even take the extra mile and go to a salon for some professional help if you want. You may experiment a bit to see which look or hairstyle is best for you.
Professionals are readily available to assist you. Again, hygiene is overly important. Make it part of your daily routine to take a shower daily. Stay fresh each and every day.
A Real Life Hero
Read books about manners, chivalry and courtesy. You should know that a woman's melting point is when treated with utmost respect. Be a gentleman and make her feel extra special. Forget all trace of rudeness. Act properly around her. Be knowledgeable about women's stuff such as fashion, jewelries, and bags.
Do not try to be an expert on these subjects though; little knowledge is enough to have something in common to talk about, in case you both are totally different from each other.
Besides fashion, also be informed about current issues. Try to know a little of everything and you will sure make an impression.
What Time Is It?
In whatever angle you view it, tardiness does not ring any positive note especially on a date. Thus, you have to come on time each time you have a date. Do not let her wait or else she will get the wrong impression about you.
On the other hand, being too early has its own pitfall too. If you do so specifically if you are picking her at her place, she may not be finished preparing yet or you may find her half-dressed for your date. Surely, you do not want to put pressure on her to rush on her clothes and make-up, do you?
Moreover, pay attention to your date. Sincerely compliment her for anything. By now, perhaps you already noticed how women like it when complimented about their looks or even about their clothes or shoes. Little compliments matter so much as long that they are said with utmost sincerity.
You may forget that your date is about the two of you and not about you alone. Hence, let her take part on it and let her speak up. Sometimes, a guy is too absorbed on impressing a girl that he ends up babbling about himself, leaving no time for the girl to talk. This is totally absurd. How are you going to know her if you do not listen to what she has to say?
Do not overly talk about yourself only. Hear her story as well. Be a good communicator as well as a good listener. This is highly essential.
Money Matters
It is an unspoken rule that guys should pay the date. But in today's time, more and more women have become independent and want to take liability on their share of the date. If you date such woman, you may argue with her about it. If she agrees to let you pay, then do so. But if not, at least shoulder half of the whole bill.
Apart from who-pays-the-bill, kissing is another matter to reckon with. First date kiss may or may not be for you. So watch out. But be on the safe side and avoid the goodnight kiss after your first date. Many women are not comfortable with this. Unless of course, the signs are apparent.
To find out if she wants to be kissed or not, read her gestures. Or, wait if she will initiate.
If you do like the girl and wants to see her again, get her number. However, do not lead her on to believe that you will call her if you have no intentions of seeing or hearing from her again. If you are not truly interested for another date, thank her for a wonderful time, bid her farewell and walk on. On the contrary, if you want to date her again, let her know.
Dating is a whole new experience that can open up wonderful opportunities. With these dating tips and by doing things right, you have greater chances of a happy and memorable dating escapade.
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