Okay, coming to a woman by praising her to high heavens is like going to her with a poster stuck on your forehead declaring that you're a loser. Yup, in the pickup expert's language, such causes you to be an AFC - and Average Frustrated Chump, a name used for people who can't acquire any because they don't have the right paraphernalias and the right talents for the pursuit.
When approaching and in time talking to a woman, you have to feign lack of interest.
The reason?
It's due to the reason that you, the PUA - or pickup artist for the uninitiated - should forever possess the upper hand. If you illustrate to the lady that you're attracted - or worse, possessed - with her, then you will be giving her the advantage on a silver platter. If she finds out you're infatuated with her, either or all of the following situations will materialize:
* She will begin to act difficult to pleasing, knowing that whatever her wants would be, you're definite to give your best to fulfill them. * She'll lose fascination on you, as with every sport, the excitement is frequent in the hunt and she already has you in the bag. * She'll see the L-O-S-E-R on your head from afar and she won't offer you the time of day.
Still, if you manage to put on indifference, you will acquire the lead, and continue to benefit the advantage until the culmination of your pursuit. Take the following things if you complete such:
* She will feel dared. If she's pretty enough to catch your interest, then chances are she's so used to getting someone's attention rather simply. You'll be one of a kind, and she'll be surprised, and she won't stop until you yield to her charms as well. * She will consider you mysterious, what with the apparent challenge you have against her captivating aura. * She will attempt to win you over. The victim will also become the killer, and this will make things much, much simpler for you.
The way a PUA puts on disinterest is by means of his declarations known as negs. A neg is an apparently accidental offense that is meant to shock her because she's not used to receiving such remarks. "Your nails look fabulous, are they real?" is a core line in numerous PUAs' practices.
In composing a neg, you have to have an additional compliment. A neg stated mainly as an insult will look, well, insulting. But a neg that is an offense attached to a praise will have her puzzled, and this is how you'd wish her to be.
When approaching and in time talking to a woman, you have to feign lack of interest.
The reason?
It's due to the reason that you, the PUA - or pickup artist for the uninitiated - should forever possess the upper hand. If you illustrate to the lady that you're attracted - or worse, possessed - with her, then you will be giving her the advantage on a silver platter. If she finds out you're infatuated with her, either or all of the following situations will materialize:
* She will begin to act difficult to pleasing, knowing that whatever her wants would be, you're definite to give your best to fulfill them. * She'll lose fascination on you, as with every sport, the excitement is frequent in the hunt and she already has you in the bag. * She'll see the L-O-S-E-R on your head from afar and she won't offer you the time of day.
Still, if you manage to put on indifference, you will acquire the lead, and continue to benefit the advantage until the culmination of your pursuit. Take the following things if you complete such:
* She will feel dared. If she's pretty enough to catch your interest, then chances are she's so used to getting someone's attention rather simply. You'll be one of a kind, and she'll be surprised, and she won't stop until you yield to her charms as well. * She will consider you mysterious, what with the apparent challenge you have against her captivating aura. * She will attempt to win you over. The victim will also become the killer, and this will make things much, much simpler for you.
The way a PUA puts on disinterest is by means of his declarations known as negs. A neg is an apparently accidental offense that is meant to shock her because she's not used to receiving such remarks. "Your nails look fabulous, are they real?" is a core line in numerous PUAs' practices.
In composing a neg, you have to have an additional compliment. A neg stated mainly as an insult will look, well, insulting. But a neg that is an offense attached to a praise will have her puzzled, and this is how you'd wish her to be.
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