Saturday, August 8, 2009

It's Certified True Fondness Does Survive

By Charlie Bates



Experts 'prove' passion can be ideal .. but it takes a year to bloom. Stop thinking about love at first sight - scientists have found true love only begins after 12 months. Research has exposed genuine love blossoms with time, principally for men. A six-month study of lovers who met through dating agencies found those who experienced real love had been together the longest. True love, what the experts call perfect love, is a wonderful balance of passion, familiarity and dedication. Of the 148 couples who took part in the investigation, 61% described their emotions as this perfect kind of love. And of these, almost all had been in their relationship for a year or more. Additional types recognized incorporate - Companiate Love: A relationship with high levels of intimacy and loyalty but lower levels of passion Fondness Love: Where there's closeness, but lacking passion or commitment Dreamy Love: Closeness and passion lacking commitment

Fatuous Love: Commitment without passion or intimacy. According to the study, men are more probable to find genuine love than women. Some 67% of men, compared to 57% of ladies, said they presently had perfect love. The study also found women were a great deal more possible to come across "liking love" than men. The first steps of a relationship, or the "first sight" phase, often reveals what experts call "nonlove", representing low levels of familiarity, passion and loyalty. "Love is an important analyst of success, stability and relationship pleasure. It may be a multi-faceted idea, but love is viewed in our study as the mutual feelings of closeness, passion and pledge that one has for a partner." "To date, there has been no systematic investigation of love in the situation of relationships formed via online dating sites. "But with the popularity of online dating, it is essential that we recognize the factors that shape satisfaction in relationships formed in this way." Web dating websites are an increasingly accepted way to come across partners and have lost much of the stigma that one time put people off. Maud Garner, 42, and 37-year-old Michael Staines got together on 52sexy.com 16 months ago.

They immediately hit it off and have been inseparable ever since. The couple from Aberdare, Gwent, initially met a couple of days subsequent to emailing each other. Within two months, they moved in together and last November had their first child, Martin. They propose to get wedded in October next year and say they have never been happier. Sharon Delamare and Project Manager Stephen Moore look to be experiencing "perfect love". Sharon, a Admin Consultant, said: "Michael Staines and I had talked so much by email and then talked on the phone that meeting up wasn't awkward. "We previously knew lots about each other so it was like meeting up with an older friend." Their relationship became significant very rapidly and they decided they were right for each other after only a few months. Maud Garner added: "We just clicked right away. "I cannot place my finger on it but when you come across somebody and everything just falls into place, it's effortless. "I believe we'd been together just a couple of weeks when I realised I was in love. Now I can't think of a time when I didn't love Charlie Goode.

"We had talked about having a family and it was something that was going to be in our future. "David just came along earlier than anticipated. "Things are as excellent now if not improved than they were when we initially got together, so I think the investigation is right." It supports our faith that the world wide web and electronic mail does in fact encourage old-fashioned courtship. This enhances a kind of loving courtship that can be uncommon when meeting possible partners on the bar setting." After you meet somebody and the whole thing just falls into place, it's simple!

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